Client's written "Help me, I thought I finally get to deal with the issue of my weight, but the sugar is killing me. Was once terrible and I will not tell you what to eat today because he does not believe that all I can say is that 90% of my diet consists today of Sugar! I really, really need help to overcome these desires, and I have no doubt addicted to sugar. whether I can go beyond that, there is no doubt that I will reach my goal. "
If you see a little of yourself in this letter, you are not alone. Many describe themselves as sugar addicts. They think that if it is only for one thing, then they can achieve their weight loss. If you think the only thing on your way to weight loss, consider this: if it was missing something (a sugar addiction, for example)? Do you really think, "If you fix this, there is no doubt that I will reach my goal," or it is an easy excuse to get stuck?
If I told you I could show you a way to stop craving sugar, would you like me to show you how?
Think for a moment. Close your eyes and really think. You just said you do not want sugar, then you can lose weight, but is this really true for you? Ask yourself these questions:
You eat differently, and if so, how?
You behave differently, and if so, how?
What has changed, and what can stay as they are?
What do you lose?
What do you gain?
So you know what you want, and you can do it, and I know what will change (for example, how your life can be different), you can not discover the obstacles that must first be taken into account. For example, you may want to stop eating anything after 19 hours after your husband comes home from work until 8 and wants you to join him for dinner. This obstacle.
If you used to watch your favorite show with a bowl of ice cream and break the habit is another obstacle.
If you do not find ways to overcome your obstacles perhaps through discussion and compromise with your husband, or break habits exercises for your ice cream habit, there must be a problem. Suffice it to say that you will not do anything any mroe rarely works. What can be the place that stand in the way of achieving your goals, and find a way to escape, and you're more likely to achieve these goals into reality once and for all.
Statement: "If this thing has been addressed, everything else falls into place" is ", and if" and gets people into trouble. Want Fairy Godmother to make everything better. A strong belief that there is a thing and another as "eating sugar is my problem," sets you up to fail, especially if you really like eating sugary foods.
Get a handle cravings is not an all or nothing offer. You must leave room for differences in some cases. It is not the occasional detour that cause weight problems, it is generally the way we travel.
NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), a good starting point is the practice of what is called the result as good establishment. "Good form" means that it meets all the criteria for a good final result deliberate.
NLP: How to create a good shape and get the results you want
Here are the steps to make a good configuration results:
1) the state you want (and not what you do not want). "I want to weigh 135 pounds."
2) to determine if you can do it (Do you think this is possible?).
3) What are the resources you have and what you need (time, money, and equipment, clothing, equipment and training, whatever).
4) check if someone else is involved and potential obstacles that may arise in relation to others. Think of all the people involved in the daily life, your day.
5) Imagine "as if" you are what you say you want to know if this picture is. Do you like what you see?
6) develop an action plan to achieve a result.
Although it may seem like a lot of effort simply to decide what you really want, and go through these steps at the beginning helps you find potential obstacles which previously stopped you from moving forward. For example, if you decide you want to join the gym and start exercising every day, but I forgot that you do not even need a car and just lost your job, plan does not practice from now on. If you do not have to join a gym, and you end up not going, so you think you have failed, but the plan failed, not you. Do not think about it.
Had a better plan in this case do exercises at home, or on foot (or walking just for practice). Later, when you do not have transportation, you can review the plan and perhaps join a gym after that. There are always options.
It is better to watch what you want from all angles, and then develop a comprehensive plan can be defined and works. Then, when you know what you want, you also know that you can achieve this by taking the start is the first step towards making it a reality.
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